When I first heard these words, I felt disgusted and offended. I am not a puritan but I believe in the vows of marriage and in God. If I’d wanted affairs, I wouldn’t have gotten married. But, they wouldn’t be called affairs if I wasn’t married, would they? I’ve read these words on the ashley madison online dating website for cheating husbands and wives.
These words reminded me of what my grandmother used to say to me. She said that people are like balloons that keep things inside to remain the same round and beautiful balloons for those who admire them. But from time to time, you need to let the air out of the balloon otherwise it will break and it will be of no use to anyone. This was her explanation for having an affair with my grandfather and having my mom.
My marriage was not the happiest but it was ok. Should I have had an affair? Well, I did. Amazingly, I found myself understanding Ashley’s words and the words of my grandma. Life is incredibly short. Some crazy guy may decide tomorrow to blow up your office and you will die without saying I love you to your husband. An affair is a way to blow out steam, to let the air out from the balloon so that you have the power to continue. An affair can sometimes save your marriage and relight the candle and it is a very personal decision.
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